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6 Sex Positions to Try This Valentine's Day

6 Sex Positions to Try This Valentine's Day

Valentine's Day isn't just about exchanging chocolates and love notes; it's also the perfect occasion to spice things up in the bedroom. Whether you're celebrating with a long-term partner or exploring new connections, trying out some fresh sex positions can add an extra spark to your Valentine's Day festivities. From intimate embraces to steamy encounters, here are some exciting positions to heat up your Valentine's night, from the condom experts at EXS.

Roses Are Red

In this sensual position, the receiving partner sits on top, straddling their partner who sits propped up with their legs stretched out. With feet flat on the surface, the receiving partner controls the rhythm, allowing for deep penetration and plenty of eye contact. This intimate position enhances connection and allows partners to explore each other's bodies with ease.

roses are red visual example of the sex position

How to do it: The receiving partner straddles their partner's hips, lowering themselves onto their lap while facing them. The penetrating partner supports their weight with their hands placed behind them, providing stability and leverage. The receiving partner can adjust the angle and depth of penetration by moving their hips and varying the pace of thrusting.

Where to do it: Whether on a bed, couch, or even against a sturdy wall, this position is versatile and can be enjoyed in various settings, making it perfect for a romantic Valentine's evening. It’s also a perfect position to try out in your car - just don’t get caught!


This unique position involves one partner sitting with their legs slightly spread and bent, while the other partner sits in between, positioning their ankles on either side of the sitting partner's shoulders. With the receiving partner in control of the depth and angle of penetration, this position offers intense G-spot or prostate stimulation and allows for intimate eye contact between partners.

How to do it: One partner sits comfortably with their legs bent and slightly spread apart. The other partner positions themselves between their partner's legs, facing them, and places their ankles on their partner's shoulders. They can then guide their partner's penis, strap-on, or any other penetrating object inside them while using their hands for support on the ground behind them. The sitting partner can assist by holding their partner's hips or thighs for added stability and control. Alternatively, if both partners have penises, they can try this position by facing each other, with one partner straddling the other's lap, and their ankles resting on their shoulders, allowing for mutual penetration and pleasure.

Where to do it: This position is best performed somewhere comfortable, whether on a soft bed or a cosy couch. For added excitement, consider trying it in front of a crackling fireplace or under the soft glow of candlelight.

69 Shades of Love

It’s not all about penetration - this is a classic position for mutual pleasure. 69 Shades of Love involves both partners engaging in oral sex simultaneously. This intimate act allows partners to explore each other's bodies and experience heightened sensations together.

How to do it: Partners lie side by side, facing each other's genitals. The person on top positions themselves so their mouth is near their partner's genitals, while the person on the bottom reciprocates. Both partners can adjust their position and angle to find the most comfortable and pleasurable arrangement.

Where to do it: The 69 position is one of the most versatile choices that can be enjoyed in various locations. Whether on a bed, a couch, or even in the shower, this position allows for simultaneous oral pleasure and intimate connection. For a romantic twist, consider trying it on a soft blanket under the stars in the garden. or in a secluded spot in nature.

Champagne Room

The Champagne Room involves one partner sitting on the edge of the bed or a chair, while the other straddles their lap, facing them. This position allows for face-to-face closeness and easy access for clitoral stimulation, enhancing intimacy and pleasure for both partners. This position is perfect for intimate conversations and dirty talk.

How to do it: The penetrating partner sits on the edge of the bed or a chair, with their feet flat on the ground. The receiving partner straddles their lap, facing them, and lowers themselves onto their partner's penis or strap-on. Both partners can adjust their position and movements to find the most comfortable and pleasurable rhythm.

Where to do it: Whether on a bed or a couch, this position is best enjoyed in the privacy of your own home. For a touch of luxury, consider setting the mood with soft lighting, satin sheets, and a glass of champagne. This is also one of the other positions that could work in a car…

Cupid's Arrow

A romantic twist on the missionary position, Cupid's Arrow involves the receiving partner pulling one knee close to their chest during penetration. This adjustment allows for deeper penetration and more room for self-stimulation, enhancing pleasure and intimacy between partners.

How to do it: The receiving partner lies on their back with their knees bent and feet flat on the bed. As the penetrating partner enters them, the receiving partner pulls one knee towards their chest, opening themselves up for deeper penetration. This position allows for intimate eye contact and easy access to erogenous zones for additional stimulation.

Where to do it: Try this position on a bed or a cosy rug by the fireplace for ultimate comfort and pleasure. For added romance, consider setting the mood with rose petals, scented candles, and soft music playing in the background.

More Ideas to Spice Up Your Valentine's Evening

In addition to trying out these exciting sex positions, there are many other ways to spice up your Valentine's evening. Consider incorporating sensual massage, erotic storytelling, or role-playing into your intimate activities. Experimenting with sex toys, aphrodisiac foods, or sensual music can also enhance arousal and pleasure. Remember to communicate openly with your partner, explore each other's desires, and prioritise mutual pleasure and satisfaction.

EXS Gift Ideas

Looking for the perfect Valentine's gift to add some extra spice to your romantic evening? Our range of sexual wellbeing products is designed to enhance pleasure and intimacy, ensuring a memorable experience for you and your partner. For a thrilling solo adventure or intimate couple's play, consider the Satisfyer Mission Control Air Pulse Vibrator. With its powerful air pulse vibrations and waterproof design, you can explore new levels of pleasure in the shower or tub. If you're ready to seal the deal on your desires, the Satisfyer Seal You Soon Air Pulse Vibrator is the perfect choice. Crafted from luxurious silicone and featuring intense air pulse vibrations, this toy is sure to satisfy your every need.

And don't forget to elevate your intimate moments with our EXS Ribbed & Dotted Condoms. Designed for maximum stimulation and pleasure, these condoms feature raised ribs and dots for added excitement. Pair them with our range of water-based lubricants, available in a variety of flavours and pack sizes, for an unforgettable Valentine's experience. 

At EXS, we're dedicated to making every moment more enjoyable for everyone. Going away this Valentine’s? Check out our checklist for what to pack for your romantic getaway.

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